Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Song of Solomon 8:4 , NLT I know this applies to many Christians out there, both young and old. Some of us are creeping into a life of dreaded celibacy and living off of a sexual memory from last […]Read More Saved & lustful
This wasn’t what I was going to post today, but the Lord placed this on my heart this morning so, I’m gonna follow Him with this. I’ve thought about this before and this was hard to dig into, but necessary. If you’re a regular reader then you know I’m a sexual assault survivor by now, […]Read More How sexual trauma influenced my sex life
A little while back, the revelation hit me that I may never be married. While the thought may be a depressing one to some, in a strange way, I’ve accepted it as a possibility. It may be God’s will for me to remain single for whatever reason and if that’s the case, I figured I’d […]Read More To the husband I wasn’t promised…
“You were running the race so well. Who has held you back from following the truth? It certainly isn’t God, for he is the one who called you to freedom. This false teaching is like a little yeast that spreads through the whole batch of dough!”Galatians 5:7-9 NLThttps://bible.com/bible/116/gal.5.7-9.NLT Have you ever had to wash something […]Read More Until the water runs clear
“According to My earnest expectation and hope, that I will not be put to shame in anything, but that with all boldness, Christ will even now, as always, be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death.” – Philippians 1:20 The title…I know right. After living for 29 years, I’ve been dating since […]Read More Never Have I ever: dated while Saved
This past week has been interesting in its own special way. No, there wasn’t any huge surprises, no I didn’t get a man, or a raise which both seem to be far in reach. (Insert side eye) what I did gain from the last few days was the enjoyment of …me, let’s get into it. […]Read More My singleness session
“I want you to be free from the concerns of this life. An unmarried man can spend his time doing the Lord’s work and thinking how to please him.” 1 Corinthians 7: 32 A few years ago, I used to work in a hotel and their distinguishing quality was having a full kitchen in their […]Read More Are You Single-Single?
“I want you to do whatever will help you serve the Lord best, with as few distractions as possible. – 1 Corinthians 7: 35, NLT So, I’ve made the executive decision to think of ya’ll as my family, so we’re cousins from this point on, so hey cousins! *Inserts hysterical waving emoji* Quick update of […]Read More Singleness, the Mirror We Avoid.
“You say, “I am allowed to do anything”-but not everything is good for you. And even though “I am allowed to do anything,” I must not become a slave to anything.” 1 Corinthians 6: 12 NLT Hey Guys! First I have to thank God for what He’s doing through this little ole’ blog! The responses […]Read More The Misconceptions of being Single & Sexless pt. 2
“God gives the gift of the single life to some, the gift of married life to others.” – 1 Corinthians 7:7 NLT I don’t know about you, but marriage has always had a place in my heart. My childhood was wrapped in pink ruffles and rose buds as I awaited my prince to come and […]Read More Misconceptions of being single & Sexless